TMYTheirs. Mine. Yours.
✦  Who we are

A shared eye, and a soft spot for gold with a past.

Theirs. Mine. Yours. is two of us: Ally and Abrar, friends first, business partners a close second. Different heritage, different day jobs, the exact same instinct for what makes a piece special.

Between us there's a Product Manager, a teacher, four kids, two cultures where gold means everything, and one shared rule: we only pass on what we'd happily keep.

portrait pending · we're taking a good one, promise
THE TWO OF US
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Ally.

Melbourne born & raised · Product Manager by day · mum always

Being a mum is the role I'm most proud of. My favourite thing in the world is time with my kids and family: always together, always doing something, always making memories. I photograph pretty much everything because I never want to forget a single moment.

My Macedonian heritage has shaped how I see jewellery my whole life. Growing up, gold was never just something you wore. It was given at the moments that mattered most, chosen with love, and kept forever.

When I'm not hunting the next beautiful find, you'll find me at the gym, curled up with a good book, exploring somewhere new with my family, or shopping for basically anything and everything. There's always a chai latte involved somewhere along the way.

What draws me to vintage
  • The history. Every piece existed long before you. Someone saved for it, gifted it, wore it for the moments that mattered most.
  • The design. The craftsmanship of a different era, with details and settings you simply don't find in jewellery made today.
  • Honestly? The sparkle. High-carat vintage gold catches the light in a way that stops you in your tracks.

At TMY I bring the eye, the instinct, and a genuine obsession with making sure beautiful vintage pieces find the people who will love them most.

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Abrar.

Egyptian by birth · raised in New Zealand · teacher · mum of two

I'm one half of TMY and proof that a passion project can quietly become a business if you let it. Born in Saudi Arabia, raised in New Zealand, grown into who I am here in Melbourne. I've moved often and far, but a few things stayed constant: family, gold, and an old habit of wanting to know the story behind things before I decide how I feel about them.

Growing up, I watched my mum and the older women in my family wear their gold constantly, not carefully. Best 22k sets worn while hand-washing rugs. Every ring on while kneading dough for flatbread. Gold wasn't precious in the sense of untouchable. It was precious in the sense of worn, every day, without ceremony. I thought that was the coolest thing, and it stayed with me.

Away from TMY and the classroom I'm chasing Melbourne's best coffee with my family, trying cuisines we haven't had yet, hunting new playgrounds with my kids, or several episodes deep into an Arabic or Turkish drama.

What draws me to vintage
  • The lives before mine. Every scratch, every worn-down band, every clasp fixed twice: that's a person's whole life happening while they had it on.
  • Worn, not preserved. Nothing was ever "too good" to wear. I'm not looking for pristine. I'm looking for clearly lived.
  • My mum's ring. A chunky engraved 22k band I still wear. Every time I put it on, I think about her hands in it before mine.

I'm the one who lights up when a piece finds its person, who'll dig through trays and estate sales for months to match someone with the gold they've been quietly lusting over. Part matchmaker, part treasure hunter. Wish lists aren't a task to me. They're a hunt.